What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want

Dating Kinky, Inc.


A fun and frank discussion about how people connect with each other and to their own authentic selves, with questions asked by, a guy. While many of our guests come from the sex positive and non traditional relationship world, the program is about the humans behind the character and the stories of how people find their authentic selves through an atmosphere of expectations, exaggerations, and challenges.

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158 episodes

Master Lola Smiles - Education and BDSM with Smiles

Master Lola Smiles joins the show to talk education and giving back to the community as well as a life in leather and what it means to be named Master. Her discussion with Hi There Catsuit is presented by Dating Kinky.

1h 4m
Mar 21
Vicky Devika - The Unmasking

She went viral for her Rubber grocery store adventures in 2020 and now, she has taken a journey to find her real self and help others find their way out of the shadows. The incredible Vicky Devika joins HiThereCatsuit for an inspirational interview. Our show is thanks to the wonderful people at Dating Kinky.

1h 4m
Mar 14
Lola Jean and Miss Shayla: 7 Days of Domination

They are the founders of 7 Days of Domination and just amazing humans who bring topics to the forefront for Dommes and those curious about domination. Miss Shayla and Lola Jean join HiThereCatsuit for a great discussion on education and their views on the scene.

1h 9m
Mar 07
Miss Vivian Darkbloom - The Doll Handling Domme

Boston based Domme, Miss Vivian Darkbloom discusses her love for #latex, her pursuit of the perfect doll and the joy of a lifestyle and work in kynk with HiThereCatsuit.

1h 7m
Feb 28
Fayth on Fire - The Trail to Discovery

The free spirited Fayth on Fire is an veteran fetish model when it comes to balloons and bondages of all types, but it's the journey she is taking right now that makes her so amazing. She joins us on this Fetishcon Friday edition of the show

1h 5m
Feb 23
Gloria Brame - From Different Loving to a Different World

In 1993, Gloria Brame had the courage to write a book called "Different Loving" which was a heavily researched study of the world of fetish and kink. Now 20 years later, BDSM is in the mainstream. How did we get here? A visit with the good Doctor as she talks to HiThereCatsuit in this fascinating interview.

1h 15m
Feb 21
Friday Extra: Lady Supernova: Interview with a NYC Lifestyle Domme

Lady Supernova is a NYC Lifestyle Domme, Erotica Writer and a medical professional. She always wondered what it would be like to be a guest on the show and today, she gets to experience it in this Friday Extra.

Feb 17
Damazonia - The Warrior Mistress

Like a powerful Amazon goddess, Mistress Damazonia brings fantasies to life while championing the downfall of the patriarchy and the rise of authenticity. She is HiThereCatsuit's guest in this very intense conversation you don't want to miss.

1h 7m
Feb 14
Evie Lupine - The YouTube Connection to Kink

She is as amazing and delightful as you would imagine she would be. Just finished a great interview with Evie Lupine talking about her YouTube channel, her education videos, Friday night livestreams, BDSM, Asexuality, Self Collaring and so much more.

1h 10m
Feb 07
Princess Kali - The Founder of the Kink Academy - Part 2

The founder of The Kink Academy and the Red Key Club and 2022 inductee into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame, Princess Kali joins us for the second of a two part episode. In part 1, we discussed the Kink Academy, the art of erotic humiliation and more. In Part 2, we have a discussion on Ethical Financial Domination.

Feb 03
Princess Kali - The Founder of the Kink Academy - Part 1

The founder of The Kink Academy and the Red Key Club and 2022 inductee into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame, Princess Kali joins us for the first of a two part episode. In part 1 we discuss the Kink Academy, the art of erotic humiliation and more. Part 2 will be Friday Feb 3 with a discussion on Ethical Financial Domination.

1h 18m
Jan 31
Temptress Raven Eve - The Return to the TRE Dungeon

In our second FetishCon Friday show, it's a trip back to the dungeon of Temptress Raven Eve for an amazing interview that now only goes into her origin story but also takes HiThereCatsuit through a journey to interview her. Also available on video at youtube.com/datingkinky.

1h 10m
Jan 27
Mistress Ezada Sinn - The Matriarch

Today, we will share a visit from the true Matriarch - the incredible Mistress Ezada Sinn. It is an important conversation that will allow you to see a new vision of power and one that will create conversation. She joins Jon to discuss her vision.

1h 13m
Jan 24
Tara Indiana and the Dominatrix Hall of Fame

This week, we have a return visit from one of our favorite guests with an amazing discussion with Tara Indiana with stories of the early days of dungeons and fetish porn. History comes alive with this legendary dominatrix in her conversation with HiThereCatsuit.

1h 14m
Jan 17
FetishCon Friday -First Faves

In the debut of FetishCon Friday, we revisit the first fives of Jean Bardot, Temptress Raven Eve, Jim Weathers, Anastasia Pierce, Stacy Burke and Ludella Hahn, all personalities who appeared at FetishCon 2022. Will you be at the next great gathering of the fetish world? FetishCon 2023 - August 10-13 - tickets at fetishcon.com

Jan 13
Dirk Hooper - The Art of Kink

We talk about the multimedia life of Dirk Hooper. From his podcast to his art to his photography to so much more, Dirk is a fetish industry unto himself, dedicated to honoring the community in the best ways. We talk about ART BECOMING LIFE in a thought provoking story sure to inspire you. He joins Jon for a lively conversation.

1h 13m
Jan 10
Dr. Alison Ash - Turnon.love into a new year

We have a return visit from Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love. She talks with HiThere Catsuit about her upcoming class series and more! * For info on her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy

Jan 03
Natalya Sadici: The Patron Saint of Debauchery

The Patron Saint of Debauchery, Vixen Sadist & South Florida Dominatrix - the incredible Natalya Sadici joins @hitherecatsuit for a conversation that includes her amazing history in the community and the story of how they connected in a beautiful way through the podcast.

1h 7m
Dec 20, 2022
Goddess Severa - The Height of Domination

At 6 foot 5, she towers over the Dominatrix universe, and as a content producer since 1999, she provides amazing videos that features wrestling, domination and one of a kink adventures. She is the imposing Goddess Severa and she joins @hitherecatsuit for this enlightening conversation.

1h 11m
Dec 13, 2022
Ariel Anderssen - Playing to Lose

Thanks to my lovely friend Roped Prose, I had the most lovely interview with Ariel Anderssen, who may just be the sweetest woman I have ever met. Her new book is about how she escaped the Jehovah's Witnesses and began a life as a sub fetish model. This amazing story is available for preorder at her website and Help support Playing to Lose by Ariel Anderssen at @Unbounders https://unbound.com/books/playing-to-lose

1h 0m
Dec 06, 2022
Podopheleus: Advocate for Change

He is an advocate for change, a sub male, a hip hop writer, an interviewer and an author of Triple Formed, a BDSM book written in the form of rap lyrics and amazing illustrations. He is Podopheleus, and he joins HiThereCatsuit for a great conversation from the right side of the slash.

1h 1m
Nov 29, 2022
Ludella Hahn - The Face of Fetish

Winner of so many awards @FetishCon and the 2022 Fetish Awards for her work with so many amazing characters and fetishes. @hitherecatsuit has in depth talk with the fabulous @LudellaHahn and Jon has a very special announcement about the future of our show to start it off!

1h 33m
Nov 22, 2022
Rob Rocket Arnegard - Strap on your Jet Packs, It's Rocket

When two passionate podcasters meet - the topics take on a life of their own. JoinHiThereCatsuit and Rob "Rocket" Arnegard of @TheRocketReview for an episode like none other. Fantastic and fun conversation on the show.

1h 21m
Nov 15, 2022
Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D and the Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy

The visionary behind the @evolutionarydominatrixacademy @damianachiphd will be joining @hitherecatsuit on the podcast and in a special video edition of the show premiering November 8. We discuss a lot about the psychology of k!nk and the beauty of our world. We hope you will join us.

1h 11m
Nov 08, 2022
Mizzy Bender - It's Mizzy's World, We just live in it.

Entrepreneur, Event producer, Podcaster. Mizzy Bender is a lifestyle media powerhouse who has taken simple ideas and turned them into sexy success stories like Mindbender Parties and Mizzy's Boutique.

1h 12m
Nov 01, 2022
Stacy Burke - The Fetish Chick

She is the Fetish Chick, Playboy Hugh Hefner ex-Girlfriend. And you have seen her on E! The Girls Next Door, Troma, Riki Rachtman`s World Famous Cathouse... and one of the famous groundbreaking Harmony Concepts models. The incredible Stacy Burke joins HiThereCatsuit for a very open interview about a remarkable life.

1h 3m
Oct 25, 2022
Olivia Akula - From Russia with a Love of Kink

Hall of fame Dominatrix and owner of the Fetish Chamber, Olivia Akula, shares her story of her Russian upbringing and how it has led her to be able to discover "The Ultimate Intimacy" in a conversation with HiThereCatsuit

Oct 18, 2022
Mistress Kye - Kindness Brings Us Together

Educator, Podcaster and Dominatrix, Mistress Kye's career has been full of amazing adventures from running a brothel to hosting the dungeon at Exxotica. Now she shares her stories and why she believes in kindness with HiThereCatsuit in this captivating episode.

1h 5m
Oct 11, 2022
Inanna Justice - The Heart of the Dominatrix

From Paris comes the lovely pro domme Inanna Justice who has brought together the images and words of more than 20 dommes from around the world in the beautiful work, "The Heart of the Dominatrix." She talks about the book and the joy of kink with HiThereCatsuit in this special bonus episode.

Oct 07, 2022
Swinky Life - The Intersection of Swinging and Kink

The hosts of the popular podcast The Accidental Swingers are joined by their partners in The Swinky Life - as they examine the life at intersection of Swinging and Kink in this episode taped at Fetishcon 2022. They bring up a lot of very interesting points about how swingers and kinksters are alike and very different.

1h 18m
Oct 04, 2022